Behind Every Healthy Man Is a Smart Woman
By Dr. David Samadi
September marks Prostate Cancer Awareness Month, a time to spotlight the importance of men’s health—and the vital role women play in helping the men they love take charge of it.
Let’s face it: most men aren’t exactly rushing to book annual checkups. Whether it’s out of stubbornness, fear, or simply being too busy, many men tend to ignore their health until a problem becomes impossible to ignore. That’s where women come in. Wives, girlfriends, daughters, sisters, and mothers often serve as the quiet but powerful force urging men to take action—whether it’s scheduling that long-overdue physical or encouraging healthier lifestyle choices.
In fact, studies consistently show that men are far more likely to see a doctor when a woman in their life nudges them to go. And when men stay healthy, women benefit too. Fewer caregiving burdens, less stress, and more time to enjoy life together—it’s a win-win.
Why Women Are Key to Men’s Health
Women tend to be more proactive when it comes to healthcare. They’re more likely to stay on top of screenings, vaccinations, and wellness appointments. They also tend to do more research, ask more questions, and advocate more effectively. Those same instincts can be used to support men’s health, especially during midlife when risks for issues like prostate cancer, heart disease, and diabetes increase.
Three Ways Women Can Help Improve Men’s Health
Here’s how women can step in and make a difference:
1. Stay Informed
Learn about common men’s health issues—especially prostate cancer. Know the early warning signs, risk factors, and why screening matters. Being informed can help you recognize when something may be wrong and encourage early action.
2. Encourage Regular Checkups
Help the men in your life find a good primary care doctor and keep up with regular health screenings. A simple blood test like the PSA (prostate-specific antigen) can detect prostate problems early, when treatment is most effective.
3. Be a Partner in Prevention
Lead by example. Cook nutritious meals together, go on walks, and make physical activity part of your routine. Support healthy habits—not just by talking about them, but by living them together.
It’s About Health, Not Just Prostate Cancer
While prostate cancer affects 1 in 8 men, it’s only part of the picture. Mental health, heart disease, erectile dysfunction, and low testosterone are other topics that men often avoid but shouldn’t. Having a supportive partner makes it easier for men to open up and address these concerns head-on.
Final Thoughts
Prostate Cancer Awareness Month isn’t just for men—it’s for everyone who loves them. Women can be the spark that gets the men in their lives to prioritize health—not just for today, but for years to come. By starting the conversation and showing support, women have the power to improve not only a man’s lifespan but also his quality of life.
So this September, take action. Encourage a prostate cancer screening, go for a walk together, or simply ask, “When was your last checkup?” You might just save a life.
Dr. David Samadi is the Director of Men’s Health and Urologic Oncology at St. Francis Hospital in Long Island. He’s a renowned and highly successful board certified Urologic Oncologist Expert and Robotic Surgeon in New York City, regarded as one of the leading prostate surgeons in the U.S., with a vast expertise in prostate cancer treatment and Robotic-Assisted Laparoscopic Prostatectomy. Dr. Samadi is a medical contributor to NewsMax TV and is also the author of two books, Prostate Cancer, Now What? A Practical Guide to Diagnosis, Treatment, and Recovery and The Ultimate MANual, Dr. Samadi’s Guide to Men’s Health and Wellness, available online both on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Visit Dr. Samadi’s websites at robotic oncology and prostate cancer 911.